It was our second session practising genital flagellation. Strung on the cross for the last 20 minutes, managing the pain, I sensed something change in the Domina: “This is it” she said. Her expression set. Six times, very fast, the cane hit my genitals…… Hard. I nearly passed out. For an instant, my whole being became Pain itself – I seemed to cease to exist, except for Pain. A split second later, the endorphin rush was so extreme, that I was in ecstasy. Cut down from the cross, I fell at Her feet. I’d never felt anything like it in my life.
Let me tell you, therefore, how I came to find myself on the Domina’s cross – and what you could expect, if you are lucky enough to find yourself in the same situation. I’m making some changes, for the good, in my life. As part of that, I wanted to come back to D/s S/m. I’d done BDSM for many years, even to a quite high level, but I’d given it up in 2006. I hid it from myself; but it gnawed away at my soul. I researched who I might respectfully ask to take me on. I found the Domina’s website. You can plainly see from the Domina’s films and photos that Liza is one of our greatest dominatrixes practicing in the UK today. I took a deep breath to overcome my trepidation to ask to come to see Her. I was honest with Her. She said “Yes”.
BDSM is a lifestyle experience and so we set about making all sorts of positive changes in my life: too many to describe here. Just as examples, she has guided me into dropping 12 + kilos, taking up running, and doing my first 5000 meters in under 30 minutes. I am working better, harder and more confidently than I have for a long time and, under submission, I’m a kinder, nicer, more generous person with other people. I can’t fully explain why D/s with the Domina has been a key part of this process, but it has been.
Now, of course, if you are looking at this testimonial and are someone who is not too serious about BDSM, and just want to have a lot of good humoured fun with someone like the Domina, I think you will have brilliant sessions with Her. No worries. But what if you are someone who’d like to take it a bit more seriously?
If you are mainly submissive rather than masochistic, you have a treat in store. The Domina is a person of integrity, balance, and good humour and is evidently self-disciplined herself. It’s easy to submit to someone you feel is admirable; and it’s easier to impose the same discipline on yourself as you see in Her. I’d echo the devotee who says elsewhere on this site that it would feel just wrong to let the Domina down. The Domina’s concept of submission is the opposite of grinding down – it’s one of clearing out the bad, and building up the good, a sort of “nurturing”, to use Her word. Clearly, it’s a tough nurturing, but you won’t be a loser; you’ll be a winner.
If you are mainly masochistic, rather than submissive, you have quite an experience in store if you met Her. Naked on the Domina’s cross, you have nowhere to hide. I don’t mean from the Domina – I mean from yourself. Liza is an Olympian. Matching rackets with Her, successfully playing a set, and coming away safely is, I’d say, not only great fun for both, but possibly one of Life’s great BDSM experiences, something that will make you know yourself as you rarely have before, building confidence and values. I wouldn’t let fear, or inexperience, put you off and, if you feel you could espouse the values of openness, loyalty, self-commitment, self-giving, courage, self-knowledge, and endurance brought out by Her single tail, martinet, and the cane, I’d go for it. You can be reassured there is a safety net and it has at least four key elements: (1) the Domina won’t take you to a place that you are not strong enough to go to yet, until She’s clear, and sure, that you are ready; (2) the Domina, as I have said, is a person of evident integrity; (3) hygiene and cleanliness are scrupulous; (4) the Domina’s limits mean you won’t be damaged.
Domina Liza is someone who can operate at the highest level of S/m/CP properly and safely possible in Britain. I can’t think of a better person to go to see.