In my early sessions with my Mistress I used to find it very funny indeed that she would really beat, whip or cane me so severely that she drew blood, and then offered me a cup of tea! The latter pays real testament to how easily my Mistress can switch from being the strict disciplinarian to a very welcoming, friendly woman who is very easy to spend time with. My Mistress is a true professional. She knows that it is not just about beating people, and has taken the time to understand the psyche that underpins a person with a submissive nature.
As the months went on my relationship with my Mistress began to change. Here was a woman who simply would not back down and every time she got a negative report from my wife or I incurred her displeasure she would really thrash me. I had no choice or say in what the punishment would be or how many strokes that I was to receive. The punishment was meted out and that was that! I didn’t realise at the time, but this type of punishment was the very best for me because I was so out of control that I desperately needed someone to take control. And Domina Liza most definitely took control! She helped me to break down barriers and to be able to trust her enough to tell her my story. To be a person who can be trusted with another person’s life story pays tribute to how safe and secure my Mistress can make you feel. Domina Liza is trustworthy and reliable both physically and emotionally and she is a great listener, and confidant.
The only thing was that once I trusted her the beating really began to hurt, and I began to think twice before I threw a paddy as my Mistress calls it! I also found that disappointing my Mistress was more painful than any hiding she could ever give me. In saying that though I know that if I step out of line my Mistress will beat me. There is real nurturing and security in knowing that I have an authority figure in my life who won’t put up with any nonsense, and I have been a much happier less angry person who is now more able to cope with life apart from the odd blip.
In summing up, I would have to say that my Mistress or Domina Liza for those of you who don’t yet know her, and have to earn the right to call her Mistress has helped me to save my life in every way that a person can help another to save their life. I think a great deal of my Mistress, and I’m not easily impressed! There is nothing that I would not do for her. I can’t imagine not having my Mistress in my life. Simply and with all its complexities Domina Liza is my Mistress, and I am better person because of her influence in my life!
Thank you, Mistress