I decided I needed to visit a dominatrix for a CP session about a month ago, after a ten year gap. A quick web search found Domina Liza’s Web-site, and I was immediately impressed to see in her FAQs that she would accommodate people with health problems and disabilities, provided these were discussed first. I am awaiting a knee replacement, so walk with some difficulty, and have recently had major surgery, so this mattered to me – and I have not seen this mentioned on any other dominatrix’s website. Anyway, a couple of emails later, and I knew she would be happy to see me.
Domina Liza’s website is superb, all the facts are there, with illustrations – what she does, the kit she has, her approximate location, contact details, and information about cost; but there is much more.
There are a lot of short video clips available for purchase, not expensive (but I would not want to buy all 150+ of them). Some of these can be quite scary at first sight, portraying her as a mercilessly cruel and remorseless sadist; until one takes stock, and realises these are her clients who have specifically sought out exactly the service she is providing. When one meets her one realises she is actually a very sympathetic, caring, and cultured woman, who is so understanding she can be the person her clients need her to be. As Hamlet said, “I must be cruel, only to be kind.” Other clips are lighter, and a couple I have seen are almost funny: she has a wonderful way of saying “Oh Dear!” so, so, sympathetically when she has just done something particularly excruciating, followed by her distinctive “Happy Sadist” giggle.
The human side of Domina Liza is most clearly seen in her Twitter feed (@DominaLiza) where we can get little glimpses into her life – certainly to catch tantalising insights into her sessions (In one, for example, we learn, she was wearing hockey kit, and had used four canes, two tawses and various other implements including a bath brush and a wooden shoe horn); but then in other tweets we see the human Liza, taking a walk in the sunshine on Easter Day, talking of her dogs (and mourning one who had died), her horse, her holidays, and the nettles growing in her garden.
I had no difficulty in booking my session, and she was welcoming on the phone. Her house is in a pleasant area, with very easy parking. When I arrived she was fantastic; we had a short pre-session chat, and then set to work. Suffice it to say the pain was exquisite, the endorphin flow was exhilarating, and the total experience was out of this world. She has a wonderful lightness of touch in what she said during my session, but absolutely no lightness of touch in what she did.
When it was over there was time for another chat (not counted as part of the ‘contracted’ time, every minute of which was given over to the business of being merciless). I was able to return to the real world, and experienced some more of her humour, and her sympathetic insight into the scene, in our final chat.
I am already thinking about my next visit.