Domina Liza | Midlands Mistress and Dominatrix in Derby

Domina Liza

Here you will find articles written by Domina Liza: an insight into various aspects of BDSM and fetishism which draw on her experience from all areas of her profession and are intended to give you, the reader, an insight into the many different sides of femdom, BDSM and fetishism from her own personal perspective.

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WEDNESDAY, 04 APRIL 2012

In the Heat of The Moment

The things you will say, do, and commit yourself to when your head and heart are totally separated. When your body is pumped full of it’s own chemicals like adrenaline, with endorphins racing around you – you can be very malleable..

This description fits many scenarios for example fights, sports, sex to name but a few. Lets discuss it in terms of my profession. I own 12 houses, 15 cars and have £200,000 worth of disposable cash in the kitchen drawer… No, I don’t really, but if I took everyone at his or her word, I soon would have.

I have lost count of the amount of men I have had prostrate at my feet, declaring their abject devotion and offering to lose it all just for me. ‘Take my cards, my car keys, my house keys – everything!!’ Of course when they are composed, dressed and back downstairs in my sitting room the tale is a little different. The devotion and adoration may still be there, but obviously some may have a wife, family or boss who may take slight umbrage to the person in question throwing everything away to live at the feet of a professional dominatrix!! And all of this is completely fine with me, I may be strict and demanding, but I am not delusional…

And this phenomenon is not just limited to the giving of self and goods – pain and limits are often thrown to the wind – ‘I know I said X was my limit, but take me further!’ or ‘I know I said no marks, but you can do whatever you want to me, anything!!’ In the hands of an inexperienced Domme, these can be dangerous words indeed. This is where I exercise my control of the situation, myself and the subject. I know full well that out of every 10 people who say their mistress can do ‘anything’ to them, only about three will actually fulfill that claim. This is not a criticism, skating the line between fantasy and reality is an enjoyable sport for many, and the greatest highs often need an equal low to balance them out, but woe betide those who get taken at their word!

Just make sure that when you are skating, the ice isn’t too thin…